Friday, November 6, 2009

7 Ways to Bond with Kids Despite your Busy Schedule

Considering the schedule of today’s busy moms and dads, it’s often hard to find time for that much-needed ‘mommy-daughter’ or ‘mommy-son’ bonding and ‘daddy-daughter’ or ‘daddy-son’ bonding. More often than not, moms/dads are too busy preparing for work in the morning, or too tired for anything else when they get home at night. Of course, that’s hardly an excuse since spending time with children must be a priority.

Here are some tips on how to make the best out of your bonding moments with your kids:

1. When cooking or preparing dinner

Ask your kids to help you in preparing the ingredients. In this way you can teach them how to cook and at the same time, you can bond with them. You can ask them how their day was, what things they accomplished and commend them with a “job well done” so they would be more inspired to accomplish other things

2. Get Physical

Another enjoyable and worthwhile bonding activity is to exercise together. Not only will doing this improve your health and teach your kids a healthy habit, it’s also one way to explore nature.

3. Grocery Day

Ask them to accompany you when going to the grocery; this will give you the chance to teach them how to pick fresh vegetables, fruits, and other stuff. At the same time they may also pick their own snacks.

4. Study Habits

Studying is not always a time of stress. It can be a way for you and your kids to bond.

While other kids or rather most of the kids always wanted to play, they let pass their assignments and to study for their quizzes/Exams. Personally I find it effective that mixing a real situation while studying or making a little game while studying. Commend them as well when they got High grades that they’ll be more motivated to achieve higher grade.

5. Traveling

Here in the Philippines, you’ll encounter traffic most of the time, which is very common. You can grab the opportunity by interacting with them, ask them how they are, ask them what they did that day or in school, share your experience.

6. Church

Go to church with them, introduce God to them so that they may know Him. This way, your kids would be God fearing.

7. Going to sleep

Pray with them before going to sleep and tell stories (bible stories, Fairy Tales, etc.) or talk them to sleep.

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